I am Cheng Qiguang of Vitality Bar, and the theme I bring to share today is: there is no best age, only the best mentality. Some people may wonder, what is the best age in life? Is a carefree childhood, or spirited youth, or a calm old age. I personally believe that there is no best age in life, only the best mentality.
I was born in a remote rural family, there are many brothers and sisters in the family, and I am the youngest one, at home often by the elder brothers and sisters "bully", but as long as I am wronged, I will go to my parents to complain, want to get care and love from my parents, so constantly in the playful environment grew up. Due to the poverty of my family, I dropped out of school very early and stayed at home until the age of 17. With the wave of reform and opening up and migrant work, I went south to Guangdong with several partners. At this time, the state of mind gradually changed, because out of the house, often encounter unhappy and sad things, and do not want to let parents worry, every time to the home to report peace, will say very good. As I grow older, the first thing I call them now is to tell them to take care of their health, and they tell me to work. In this way, I hope the old man can spend his old age comfortably, the old man hopes that I can work with peace of mind, each other keep the difficulties in their own hearts, silently endure alone, do not let each other worry.
There is a kind of warmth that people never forget, that is, the interdependence of the soul. For children's education, I bought a house in the county seat, want my parents to move to the county seat with me to live, but they are not willing to say that it is good to live in the countryside, not only a wide field of vision, fresh air, but also can plant vegetables, feed chickens, visit to chat, I think it is also, to the county who do not know, it is better to be at ease in the countryside. So I can only go back to spend a few days with them on vacation every year. I remember that once the Spring Festival went back, stayed at home for a few days, due to the end of the holiday, to rush back to the company to work, (when the sky was raining lightly, my mother looked at me riding to the county seat to prepare my luggage, she took a stumbling step, and sent me to the village, when I went far away to look back, she was still standing at the village gate looking at me, I stopped, and waved hard, Loudly say "Mom! Go back! I'll come back to see you when I'm free" .I don't know if she heard me, but I'm sure she could feel what I said. I am very clear in my heart, this wave, I am afraid/another year to meet, at that time the heart is very heavy, even if there are all kinds of heart, but in order to live, or resolutely turn around and move forward.
On the road of life, we will encounter a lot of unpleasant things and experiences, which may be some insignificant little things. At this time, we should calm down and think about it. Problems can only bring us bad mood, but bad mood can not solve the problem. Unless first admit defeat, in fact/our life is like this, buried in the obstacles, the experience of the heart.
Recently, I have been reading Inamori Kazuo's "Living Law" and I feel it deeply. I used to be so busy for life, so exhausted for work. All the hardships have been eaten, but life has not reached the expected results. Busy every day, but do not know the meaning of busy/where? Working late into the night, the work results are minimal, and sometimes nothing is done, but the body feels very tired. I remember Mr. Inamori said, "The essence of bitterness/is the ability to focus for a long time for a certain goal, it is the essence of self-control, persistence, and the ability to think deeply, when you feel that/unbearable, but also to work hard, determined to move forward, this will change your life." I gradually understand that suffering is to enhance the heart, hone the soul, what we have to do is to cultivate the nature, meet people to cultivate the heart.
Post time: Nov-17-2023
